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What's New At F.F.T.A.?

On Thursday, June 17th, 2010, Forever Families Through Adoption Inc., a New York and Connecticut authorized adoption placement agency and resource center, finalized its first Hague adoption.

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Waiting Families

Lorraine and Daniel

Dear Birth Parent,

Thank you for taking the time to consider us. We know there is no more important decision than choosing someone to parent your child. We hope that this letter will help you reach the right decision — one that will always give you peace and comfort in the years ahead.

Please call 1-866-944-HUGS to speak with us any time about how we may be able to help each other and your child. We are happy to answer any questions you may have and to assist you in any way we can with your decision. We would love to hear from you!

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Amy & Marcy

We are Amy & Marcy and we thank you for giving us the opportunity to tell you a little bit about us. We want you to know how grateful we are that you are considering us as adoptive parents for your soon to be born baby. Having this opportunity to complete our family with a
child to love and care for in every way is the best gift we could ever receive.

While we cannot imagine what you must be going through right now, the fact that you are open to adoption tells us how courageous and
honorable you must be. We encourage you to follow your heart. I, Amy, can tell you from my own experience having been adopted at birth, that I was raised by loving parents who encouraged me and gave me every opportunity to be happy and to follow my own dreams.
And I know in my heart that the beautiful woman who gave birth to me wanted the best for me. I wish I could tell her how grateful I am, I know she would be very proud.

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Jaime & Tom

Hello!

We are Tom and Jaime and we are very excited to share our lives and our family with you through this letter. We feel so fortunate to be parents already and we are overjoyed at the thought of expanding our family through adoption. We cannot imagine how
difficult it might be for you to take this path but we hope that our letter will help you with your choice.

We, along with our children, extended family and friends eagerly await the arrival of a new addition to our family. We have been together for five years and knew immediately that we would spend the rest of our lives together.

We have two biological children who are the world to us. Tom’s biological daughter, Alexis and our biological son, DJ are eagerly awaiting the arrival of another sibling.

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Diane & Matthew

Dear Potential Birthparent,

Our names are Diane and Matthew. We are two loving, nurturing, kindhearted and intelligent people who would love to adopt a child.

We've been a couple for sixteen years. We met at a wedding reception and started dating shortly thereafter. There was an instant chemistry and bond unlike no other we had known before.

We truly feel blessed to be together. We are longing to share all our blessings with a baby.

Our desire is to give your baby everything you would if you could. Please read further and discover who we could be the ideal match for your unborn child.

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Edie & Brian

Dear Birthparent,

Thank you so much for taking the time to get to know us and considering us as adoptive parents for your soon to be born baby.

We are Edie, Brian and Sarah and we are overjoyed to have you learn about us as
a family. We can only imagine the difficult process you are going through to be
considering adoption. We commend you for being so courageous.

We have been married for seven years and been together as a couple for fifteen years. We would very much love to adopt a baby and expand our loving family and have a sibling for our daughter Sarah, through the adoption of a newborn baby.

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Joyce

Dear Birth Mother,

I am writing this letter with the hope of opening a new chapter in my life. First, I want to start by thanking you once again for taking the time to get to know me. My name is Joyce and my lifelong dream has been to become a parent through adoption. This dream stems from my own childhood experiences which I remember with admiration for my parents, adoration for my sister and thankfulness for my extended family.

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Tim & Christian

Dear Birth Family ...

We are honored that you are taking the time to know more about us as you plan for the future of your baby. We know you face a difficult
decision and that you want to choose the right family for your child.

In this letter, we have included a lot of information and pictures so that you can get to know us a little bit better and hopefully decide that we are the right family that makes sense for you and your baby. We have thought long and hard about what to include here and, of course, this is not all there is to know about us. But, we think these are the important snapshots. Our lives - like everyone’s - are not perfect. We are works-in-progress. Everyday we grow and learn from each other. Our desire to be parents comes from a feeling that we have a lot to share with a child and that we have a lot to learn from one as well. We hope this letter gives you a better sense of who we are and we are open to sharing more as we move forward together.

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Danielle & Paul

Thank you for giving us the possibility of
changing our lives …

How are you feeling? We hope you are feeling well. Our names are Danielle and Paul. We would like to let you know how excited we are at the possibility of becoming parents. We tried for a year on our own, then went through two years of fertility treatments – it all failed. Our hearts were broken but we realized that adoption could be the answer to our prayers.

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Pat & Dave

Dear Birthparent,

Although we have not met yet, we have true compassion for you. We realize that you are facing a very difficult and emotional decision and we have an enormous amount of respect for you. As adoption is obviously an act of love, we commend your strength and courage in making plans to ensure that your child has the best possible life. We truly appreciate you reviewing our letter and perhaps giving us the honor to care for and raise your child.

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Meg & Brian

Hi!

We’re Meg and Brian and we’d like to thank you forletting us introduce ourselves. We really appreciate the thought and care you’re putting into making a good choice for your child.
Regardless of who you choose to guide your little one through his or her life, your decision to provide for them in this loving way is already a wise act that anyone would be proud to tell a
child you did for them.

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Ellemieke & Ernst

Dear Birthparent,

We are Ernst & Ellemieke from The Netherlands, in Europe. We would like to start by thanking you for giving us the opportunity to share a little about ourselves and our interest in growing our family through adoption.
Knowing that love, respect and dignity are at the heart of adoption, we realize that your decision to allow another to raise your child takes courage, trust, selflessness and love.
We admire you for that!

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Emily & Len

Dear Birth Parent,

Hello and thank you for taking the time to get to know us and our family better. We are Len and Emily and this is the story of our family. As you read further, we hope that you will choose to include your child in our family.

We know that your decision is a difficult and emotional one, and that you want the best for your child. Rest assured that in our family, your child will be very much loved and cherished and that he or she will grow up in a stable and secure home in a safe child-friendly community with strong moral values, good educational opportunities, and with a large and loving extended family. We will teach your child to be kind and generous, open-minded, confident, and to have a great sense of fun and adventure.

We will raise your child to be responsible, to always try his or her best, to be giving to those less fortunate, and to be an actively involved member of both the neighborhood and world communities.

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Sharon & Philip

Pleased to meet you!

Our names are Sharon and Philip. We are a happily married couple living in The Netherlands. A little over a year ago we had
the privilege to adopt our miraculous daughter
Wende.

Since then we have enjoyed parenting so much
that we long for another child to love and raise.
Therefore we deeply wish to adopt once more and complete our family.

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Kristen & Chris

Hello,

We are Kristen and Chris. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to tell you a bit about ourselves. We are very eager to adopt a child and are grateful to you for considering us as possible parents for your soon to be born baby. We imagine that you must be experiencing many difficult feelings as you read this letter and consider making an adoption plan, and we really appreciate the chance to let you know why we'd like to become parents.

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Robert & Bart

Hello,

We are very grateful that you are willing to read this letter, which is especially written for you. We want to show you that we would be wonderful parents and give your child fantastic opportunities throughout their life. Our hope is that your decision will grant us the privilege of guiding your baby to become a person who can be proud of you and us. And, above all, to be proud of their accomplishments and of the type of person they become.

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Harun & Austin

Dear Birthmother,

Thanks for taking the time to read our letter. We are Austin and Harun and we are delighted to be considered by you as prospective parents of your soon to be born child. We want to share with you a bit about our lives together, and how we got to this point of dreaming to become parents.

Thanks again for considering us.

Respectfully,
Harun & Austin

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Marlous & Darius

Dear Birthparent,

We would like to introduce ourselves to you. We are Marlous (34), Darius (29) and Misha (2 and adopted from Tampa, FL). We live in Amsterdam, the beautiful capital city of the Netherlands (also known as Holland). Marlous is an elementary school teacher and Darius is the owner of a music studio. Darius is originally from London in the UK.

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