What Are My Options? Who's Going to Adopt My Baby? What Will Happen To Us? What About The Dad?What's The Next Step?Where Can I Turn For Help?Some Success StoriesMeet Some Waiting Adoptive Parents
What Are My Options Who Makes an Adoption Plan? How Does The Process Work? What Is The Cost?What Else Should I Know?
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What's New At F.F.T.A.?

From March 2nd through April 6th, customers at the Waldenbooks in the Rye Ridge Shopping Center will be able to purchase children’s books and stuffed bunny rabbits to donate to Forever Families Through Adoption.

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In Words...

Adoptive Parents

Marieke & Eddy

"After a hard physical and emotional period with years of infertility treatments, our dream of becoming parents has led us to the path of adoption. Friends of us who adopted a little girl from the USA encouraged us to contact Joy and Michael because of their very positive
experience with them. Right from the very first telephone call we had with Joy and later on with Michael, we felt so very much relieved, confident and above all very happy, they where the people who were going to guide us along our way of adopting a little baby. From the beginning we had such a comfortable feeling, and they never disappointed us!" Read More...

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Richard and Florence

Our adoption experience

"I could sum up our adoption experience in one word: "SUPERB!" From our first telephone call to the Goldstein's, to the moment we held our little boy in our arms five minutes after his birth, everything went so smoothly. And it all happened so fast. We spoke with Joy and Michael Goldstein in December (long distance from Europe), got started on our home study program and preparation of materials, and went on-line (as advised) with Parent Profiles in the beginning of May. Within 2 weeks we had our first "hit," which did not work out. But by July we were talking to 3 different birthmothers, all very much interested in us as a prospective couple to adopt their as yet unborn child. And when we finally made our choice (it was terrific to have had the ability to choose) they handled all the details. They even had to arrange a new transmission for the birthparents car!" Read More...

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Caroline and Reto

Alon - how our little angel came to us
A moving story about a successful open adoption

"It was one of these things which happens by accident but are somehow destiny: A friend of ours in Switzerland gave us a seven year old business card of Goldstein's Office and told us about a special evening, where she learned about open adoption. This was very new to us and sounded exciting. We plucked up courage again after having lived through many disappointments on our way to become a family. Even more exciting to us was the fact that the phone number on the card still was correct, that somebody answered! Little by little we found out that we reached to probably the most competent people about adoption matter in USA. And we learned about open adoption, which to our eyes is the most wonderful way of adoption for all participants" Read More...

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Birth Parents

Chris

"My adoption story begins as many do, with a relationship that seemed to be over or
ending as friends. When receiving the call that told me that Shannon was pregnant, it
was very hard to believe, and brought many tears and frightened phone calls. Shannon
and I tried to work ways out to be together and keep our child, but fights and
disagreements put a strain on an already failing relationship. I wasn’t told until later
that Shannon had contacted an adoption agency, and it was quite a surprise. After
much thought and discussion with our parents and friends, Shannon and I decided that
this would be the best decision. I had my reasons for this decision, as did Shannon.
The reasons behind this kind of decision are unique to every couple, and we are no
different." Read More...

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Sareena

"I met Joy and Michael Goldstein in early March 1996 through a woman named Ilene. In January 1996, I was waiting to decide what to do about being pregnant. I went to an adoption work shop at Borders because I had considered adoption. I had also contacted another New York located agency and was only at the paperwork level. The emotions of pregnancy wore strongly on my mind and body and I was somewhat confused. I had not been able to meet any of the prospective adoptive couples through
this other agency and time was getting short. I was worried." Read More...

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Tori

"Thank you for contacting me and letting me know you found them. I am in tears right now I
hope and pray that they are still in New York and in Good Health and are able to contact me, I
have been worried for two years that something has happened to them. If you ever need a
feedback for your website please don't hesitate to ask me you have been like a guardian
angel that has entered into my roughest time in my life and helped me get through what was
and could have been horrible, with your blessings and your company I have had an
experience that has been so great that I couldn't ask for anything more." Read More...

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Cara

"Eighteen years ago I was pregnant, single and terrified about the future for my child.  I knew that I could not give him the life he deserved.  A friend recommended that I call Joy Goldstein, and I am so glad that I did.  She was the most compassionate and caring person. and put me at ease. 

That same day she gave me the necessary information and guidance to find the perfect family to adopt my son.  In the first phone call I developed an instant kinship with them, and from that day on forged a relationship that gave me confidence that my baby would have exactly the kind of life I wanted for him, with two adoring parents and lots of cousins, and stability.  Though it was still the most difficult and painful decision of my life, it is one I do not regret, and I thank Joy for making everything so much easier.  I love Joy Goldstein, and am eternally grateful for the years of support and kindness.  If you are pregnant and going through the same difficult decision that I had to make and want to talk please let Joy know and she can arrange that with me. -Cara